Here’s What To Do When You Want A Better Man

It was several years ago and I was in a crappy relationship. My then boyfriend was immature and having a difficult time finding his way in life. One day right before I put on my disposable gloves before washing dishes it dawned on me, that if I wanted a better man, I would have to…

Is She Side Chick Material?

The role of a side chick is significant as we see she has remained relevant over the course of time. Women who possess these traits are most ideal: 1. She is single. 2. She is financially independent. 3. She is physically healthy and mentally stable. 4. She is detail oriented. 5. She is articulate. 6.…

Is He Qualified For A Side Chick?

Certain men are equipped to handle more than one emotional connection with women, here's who they are: 1. He is single. A single man has the right to date and have emotional connections with multiple women. 2. He is honest with all of the women that he is emotionally involved with about his dating and…

How To Stop Arguing With Any Man

I used to feel off balance after arguments with men. By off balance I mean, after arguments with men I felt less feminine, exhausted and my larynx was sore. I also noticed that at what I thought was the end of an argument, nothing had changed. Nothing I said made a difference to him. So…

My Experience With A Compulsive Manipulator & Chronic Liar

This guy I was dating off and on for 6 years, let's call him Card. He would lie to me when he didn't have to. I knew he had a girlfriend and I knew he was broke. He was closer to 50 so I thought I could at least enjoy this mature man's sexual expertise…

How I Still Thrive Living Among Toxic People

My life is filled with toxic people, some of which I share my blood line with. Being around these toxic people on a regular basis caused me to constantly be in tears and I always felt emotionally unstable. I was often mentally and physically exhausted which would manifest itself as me giving up on the…

A Different Instagram, Facebook and Twitter on The Same Device

Twitter feels like an iPhone while Instagram feels like an android phone and Facebook feels like the google phone. Do you agree? What does this all mean? Well just like our phones, different social media platforms bring out different things within the human personality of the creative person. As far as I know, it is…

Commitment = Come Back This Is What I Ment….

COMMITMENT (com-mit-ment) = "Come back this is what I meant." This is in part what commitment in a relationship means. Your willingness to explain yourself to your partner. The trick to using this with women, is to tell her before she asks. Most women expect reasons which are explanations of sorts and most guys feel…

How I Knew It Was Time To Walk Away

I am all for untraditional hook ups and emotional exchanges between two people. But when he started to do these things I knew it was time for me to end our relationship 2 months shy of six years. 1. He couldn't understand why I needed to make plans ahead of time. He told me he…