Warning… this gets hot!

When he knocked at my door, I needed exactly two more minutes before I'd be ready. My pearl colored stilettos were on and I double checked on the seam of my fishnet stockings all was good everything was in place. I felt "ready" to open the door and let him in. He's impatient, and having…

Daily Prompt: Betrayed By Music

I was twenty-seven and in a relationship that was depressing, when I asked myself "what's wrong with what I expect from men?" And yes, I assumed that because I was not getting what I needed with men, that I was the one doing something wrong. As this was all going on inside my head, I…

How Complimenting Him When He Hasn’t Earned it Makes Him Want To Do More For Himself And You!

Let's face it, most women would sooner chose to get a pap smear than compliment the men in her life, who haven't earned her gracious observations, which ultimately lead to her kind words, otherwise known as a compliment. But here's what I found out, in some parts of the world there are more men diagnosed…

Here’s What To Do When You Want A Better Man

It was several years ago and I was in a crappy relationship. My then boyfriend was immature and having a difficult time finding his way in life. One day right before I put on my disposable gloves before washing dishes it dawned on me, that if I wanted a better man, I would have to…

Is She Side Chick Material?

The role of a side chick is significant as we see she has remained relevant over the course of time. Women who possess these traits are most ideal: 1. She is single. 2. She is financially independent. 3. She is physically healthy and mentally stable. 4. She is detail oriented. 5. She is articulate. 6.…

Is He Qualified For A Side Chick?

Certain men are equipped to handle more than one emotional connection with women, here's who they are: 1. He is single. A single man has the right to date and have emotional connections with multiple women. 2. He is honest with all of the women that he is emotionally involved with about his dating and…

How To Stop Arguing With Any Man

I used to feel off balance after arguments with men. By off balance I mean, after arguments with men I felt less feminine, exhausted and my larynx was sore. I also noticed that at what I thought was the end of an argument, nothing had changed. Nothing I said made a difference to him. So…